Adult Sex Dating: A Quick Start Guide for Pleasure Seekers

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Now that we’re living in the internet age, it goes without saying that dating isn’t what it used to be. Now that social media networks and online dating sites are the norm, we’re no longer limited to socializing with the people we’re likely to meet at work, at school, or through the sometimes painful world of blind dating. We can simply let our fingers do the walking and easily make contact with everyone from fascinating locals to mysterious strangers from the far corners of the world.

But where does the lay of the land as it exists now leave people that are interested in meeting people to have a little adult fun with? Not everyone is looking to make friendship connections or find their “forever love” after all (at least not right this minute). Is online dating really something that works for the adult crowd looking to find local sex with no strings attached? How private is it? What kinds of people make the choice to explore adult sex dating? How and where can someone interested in the possibilities get started? Let’s take a closer look at the answers to all of these questions and more.

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The Morning After: The Right Texts to Send Your Hookup Under Every Circumstance

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So it happened. You hooked up with someone last night. Maybe it was good and maybe it wasn’t, but it was pretty well understood that it was supposed to be a one-night kind of deal. Now what? If you exchanged cell numbers, you might feel like you ought to reach out the next day for the sake of politeness if nothing else, but what do you say?

These days, the communication mode of choice is typically text and with good reason. Texts are low-pressure. They don’t demand the person’s immediate attention the way a phone call does. They’re cool, they’re comfortable, and they’re appropriately casual, so it’s definitely OK  to send one to someone you hooked up with. What you say in the text depends on what you want from that person next, if anything. Continue reading…

How To Make Sure That One-Night Stand Totally Happens

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We all have that one friend who makes hooking up look easy, but – try as we might – we can never seem to score with the same consistency ourselves. So what’s that person’s secret anyway? Believe it or not, charisma and good looks have a lot less to do with it than you might think. It’s actually a lot more likely that they simply have a knack for not only picking potential partners, but knowing what it will take to close the deal. Allow us to elaborate.

What to Look For and Where to Find It

It’s true that awesome connections with potential one-night stands can start just about anywhere, but there’s a reason why most people rely on old standbys like the local clubs or their favorite bar. While not everyone that goes there is necessarily looking for sex, they are there because they want to have a good time and are likely to be open to the idea of mingling a little. Continue reading…

6 Great Places to Meet Smoking Hot Hookup Partners

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In case you still haven’t heard, sex isn’t just a lot of fun. It’s also incredibly good for you, so you have every reason in the world to have it as often as possible. Sex treats your system to a full-body workout and a flood of endorphins, so you’re left feeling like a million bucks both inside and out. Sex is a great way to connect with another person on a one-of-a-kind level as well.

It’s even increasingly socially acceptable to enjoy all the benefits of sex without the need to be in a committed relationship you may not be ready for. However, knowing you like the idea of casual sex is one thing. Finding the right people to hook up with is another matter entirely. Here we’ll go over everything you need to know to meet the best, hottest hookup partners (including where to meet them). Continue reading…

Sexual Chemistry 101: How to Detect It Early and What to Do About It

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Whether you’re only interested in hooking up right now or are ultimately looking for something more serious, sexual chemistry is an absolute must. It can be hard to explain and even harder to identify in the first place though, especially when dealing with someone you’ve only just met.

Here we’ll go over everything you need to know about sexual chemistry if you’re serious about making better connections, having better sex, and just plain getting more out of the dating process. We’ll cover some surefire ways to identify potential sexual chemistry even if you’ve only just met someone. We’ll help you figure out what to do about it as well.  Continue reading…

Hooking Up with a Coworker: Hot Idea or Recipe for Disaster?

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If you’ve ever been employed, chances are you’ve probably also thought about hooking up with a coworker a time or two and it’s not hard to understand why. Most people spend at least half of their waking hours at work every day, so not only do they interact with the same people over and over again, but they wind up getting to know many of them as well as they know anyone they live with.

It’s hardly uncommon to become so close with a favorite coworker that sex seems inevitable under circumstances like that. But is actually crossing that line ever a good idea? Here we’ll go over everything you need to know about getting down and dirty with a coworker including when you should consider it, when you shouldn’t, and how you should handle things if you decide to go for it. Continue reading…

Cybersex 101: What It Is and How to Make Your Cyber Game Hotter

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These days, great online communication skills aren’t just helpful to have. They’re absolutely essential when it comes to many things, dating included. Whether you’ve got a steady partner who loves to sext or you’re a sexy single that likes to hook up over Tinder or Mixxxer once in a while, cybersex is definitely something it pays to be good at. Let’s go over what cybersex actually is, as well as touch on a few essentials guaranteed to keep you on that cyber-hottie’s mind for weeks to come. Continue reading…

10 Tips for Playing Up Your Own Unique Brand of Sexiness

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Knowing you want to be seen as sexy, attractive, and desirable is easy. It’s figuring out how to actually do it that’s hard. After all, no two people are going to find the exact same qualities and features sexy. Plus, we all have at least one friend or acquaintance that gets plenty of sexual attention despite not being conventionally attractive, right?

At the end of the day, the key to being seen as a sexy, desirable person isn’t necessarily about what you have. It’s more about what you do with it. Here we’ll go over how tapping into your own one-of-a-kind brand of sex appeal is the best way to land more dates and get laid a lot more often. We’ll touch on a few suggestions for becoming the best, most desirable version of yourself as well.

  1. Pinpoint your unique assets.

The qualities you think you like most about yourself may not actually be the same ones that draw others to you, so you’ll want to start by figuring out the difference. A good way to do this is to reflect on the people you’ve dated or slept with in the past, especially in regards to the compliments they’ve paid you. Continue reading…

10 Tips for Coping with a Sexless Marriage

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While there’s definitely more to a marriage than sex, it’s still incredibly difficult to sustain a happy, healthy one without it. Whether it’s temporary or permanent, a lack of sexual intimacy is mentally, physically, and emotionally hard on both parties in any committed relationship. Over time, it can even cause a couple to grow apart to the point where a split seems inevitable. But how much sex is “enough” anyway? Should you and your partner be having more?

According to The Wall Street Journal, the average sex therapist would consider a given marriage “sexless” if the couple has sex fewer than 10 times per year. If that sounds like you and your spouse, you’ll want to address the problem sooner rather than later, especially if either of you isn’t feeling satisfied in that arena. The following tips can help you cope as you work toward turning your marriage around. Continue reading…

12 Expert Tips for Having a Stellar Vacation Fling

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Vacations are so wonderful because they have the potential to be whatever you want them to be. They can be relaxing or exhilarating. They can be all about blazing new trails and having the adventure of a lifetime or they can be about unwinding and taking it easy instead. At their best, vacations are all about getting away from it all and being open to new experiences of all types. What better time to try something a little different in the romance department?

Vacations flings are a great way to add a dose of fun and excitement to your time spent away from home, especially if you’ll be flying solo. However, finding the right person for sex and to enjoy one with can be a challenge if you don’t know where to look or get something started. The following tips can help you not only choose the right candidate for a vacation fling, but ensure that the experience is everything you’re looking for (and nothing you’re not) as well. Continue reading…

10 Must-Know Rules for Wowing a New Partner in the Sack

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Whether you’re about to sexually seal the deal with a brand new relationship partner or simply looking to get laid like a boss the next time you schedule a Mixxxer date, sleeping with someone new can be something of a mixed bag. On the one hand, taking someone new to bed is an experience that’s exciting because it’s packed with potential. On the other, it can be totally nerve-wracking. What if things don’t go as planned? Even worse, what if you totally bomb and the sex just sucks as a result?

Thankfully, the ability to rock a new partner’s world in the sack and guarantee they leave your bed wanting more is a skill you can not only learn, but perfect. The following are some must-know tips to get you started so that everything goes as perfectly as is humanly possible. Continue reading…