Adult Sex Dating: A Quick Start Guide for Pleasure Seekers

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Now that we’re living in the internet age, it goes without saying that dating isn’t what it used to be. Now that social media networks and online dating sites are the norm, we’re no longer limited to socializing with the people we’re likely to meet at work, at school, or through the sometimes painful world of blind dating. We can simply let our fingers do the walking and easily make contact with everyone from fascinating locals to mysterious strangers from the far corners of the world.

But where does the lay of the land as it exists now leave people that are interested in meeting people to have a little adult fun with? Not everyone is looking to make friendship connections or find their “forever love” after all (at least not right this minute). Is online dating really something that works for the adult crowd looking to find local sex with no strings attached? How private is it? What kinds of people make the choice to explore adult sex dating? How and where can someone interested in the possibilities get started? Let’s take a closer look at the answers to all of these questions and more.

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10 Important Questions to Ask Yourself Before Opening Up Your Relationship

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Even here in 2018, it goes without saying that open relationships aren’t right for everyone. However, it’s nearly impossible to ignore the kudos they get from those that have found a way to make things work for them. Open relationships can be scary if you’re new to the game, but with a little understanding and finesse, there’s really no reason why you can’t strike the right balance.

But how do you know whether going the open route is really the correct option for you and your partner? Even more importantly, how can you be properly prepared for the challenges and obstacles pretty much every couple faces while making the transition from closed to open? Sitting down with your partner and asking yourselves the following questions during the decision making process can help.

  1. “Why are we really considering this?”

For most people, the subject of opening up a relationship that is currently closed and monogamous doesn’t just come up at random and chances are that’s the case for you too. Start by figuring out why you feel the need to consider this in the first place. Then determine why you’re considering this now.

Are you in a sexual rut and looking to spice things up? Maybe your current partner has been your only partner for a long time and you want a chance to experience what else is out there these days. Yes, opening up a relationship can help breathe new life into things if your sex life has gotten stale, but so can other solutions such as role playing or kink. Continue reading…

Life After Craigslist: How Mixxxer Can Get Your Sex Life Back on Track

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While Craigslist is still a great place to go if you’re looking for a good deal on a used sofa or need a room for rent pronto, the days of using it find easy, no-strings-attached sex are unfortunately over with. This past March, the popular website deactivated its popular “personals” section for good after many years of activity. The change came about as a result of Congress passing the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act.

Although FOSTA was primarily meant to crack down on any possible online sex trafficking of children, open online interfaces like Craigslist were affected nevertheless. According to a statement from the Craigslist team, the shutdown was due to a need to protect Craigslist from any possible liability should the personals section ever be misused in any way. In other words, if Craigslist was your sole means of hooking up with other local casual sex lovers, you’re officially out of luck.

Thankfully you don’t have to give up on enjoying easy access to the casual encounters you’ve come to love altogether though. You just need a viable go-to alterative and Mixxxer is one of the absolute best. Here we’ll go over how Mixxxer can help you get your sexual groove back. Continue reading…

10 Tips for Making Your Open Marriage Work

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Whether you’re already in an open marriage or simply thinking it might be a good fit for you at some point in the future, it’s not hard to understand why you’d be interested in one. It’s a common misconception that non-monogamous people don’t care about or crave the commitment and security marriage can bring to a person’s life. Many of them do and an open marriage represents the best of both worlds – lifelong love and commitment that still allows them the sexual freedom they need in order to be happy and fulfilled.

However, knowing an open marriage is the right fit for you is one thing. Making sure yours is healthy, happy, and mutually satisfying is another. Open marriages require just as much work, compromise, and communication as traditional closed marriages do – maybe even more in some areas. The following are a few strategies for making sure yours is as strong as can be.

  1. Make sure it’s right for both of you.

Open marriages only work when both people are equally interested in being in one. They don’t work in situations where one person is pushing for it while the other is simply going along to get along. They run into trouble when both parties are technically interested, but one is a lot more enthusiastic about it than the other as well.

It’s all too easy for the person that’s less interested to become conflicted or feel resentful, especially over time. If that’s the case for your spouse, don’t push or pressure in the hopes that they’ll eventually see things your way. Compromise by looking into alternative ways to spice up your sex life instead. Continue reading…

10 Ways Exercise Makes You Better in Bed

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It goes without saying that hitting the gym on the regular is one of the best things you can possibly do for your health. It helps you maintain a healthy weight, improves your heart health, and boosts your brain function. It makes you stronger, extends your potential life span, and improves your overall quality of life as well.

What you may not be aware of is the fact that getting fit and staying that way is one of the best possible ways to improve your sex life and become the sexual dynamo you’ve always wanted to be as well. Let’s take a closer look at how.

  1. It improves your circulation.

Exercise is famous for the way it really gets your blood pumping. It doesn’t just improve your overall cardiovascular health either. It promotes the efficient flow of blood throughout your entire body. This includes to your crotch, genitals, and sex organs. What’s more, this is the case for men and women alike.

For a man, better blood flow and more of it can result in bigger, harder, longer lasting erections. In women, better circulation means an ability to experience fuller, more intense arousal. Her vaginal walls, clitoris, and labia become more sensitive as a result leading to stronger orgasms and more of them. Continue reading…

10 Things You May Not Have Known About One Night Stands

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Hook-up culture is definitely a lot more mainstream these days, but that hardly means those that enjoy the associated lifestyle don’t have the occasional question. How much of what we believe about why people have one-night stands or casual sex is fact and how much is fiction? Sure, it feels like the most natural thing in the world, but are we truly predisposed as humans to prefer casual sex?

You may wonder how “average” you really are as compared to others who prefer casual sex as well. Here we’ll go over some interesting facts, figures, and discoveries about casual sex and one-night stands, the better to answer your burning questions. How many of the following facts did you already know?

  1. Your preference for casual sex could be genetic.

If you’ve always instinctively gravitated toward casual sex and open relationships because they feel more natural to you, it might be because of something that’s written in your genes. According to one study conducted by the State University of New York, some people actually are born predisposed toward a preference for casual sex thanks to a “hook-up gene”.

The gene in question is the DRD4 gene. Those that inherit that gene are more likely to prefer one-night stands, as well as more likely than average to cheat within the confines of monogamous relationships. They’re also more likely to crave “sensation-seeking” experiences in general (i.e. gambling or drug-related highs). Continue reading…

9 Signs Monogamy Might Not Be Right for You

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There are certain ideas pretty much everyone grows up believing in when it comes to romantic relationships. Everything from the movies we watch, to the music we listen to, to the values our parents work hard to instill in us idealizes two people “together forever” as the best and only choice… but what if that doesn’t work for everyone? More importantly, what if it doesn’t work for you?

Despite what polite society would still have us all believe, monogamy isn’t right for everyone and that’s perfectly OK. Alternative choices like polyamory, open relationships, and casual sex-focused lifestyles are becoming increasingly common as more and more people figure this out. Here we’ll go over a few telltale signs that one of those choices might actually be  a much better fit for you than monogamy. Do any of the following statements sound familiar? Continue reading…

How to Successfully Open Up Your Relationship

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If you’re in a traditional monogamous relationship, it’s not difficult to understand why you might want to try opening things up. Open relationships can be wonderful, healthy ways to experience the variety you crave when it comes to sex without saying good-bye to the companionship and depth you enjoy in your primary relationship. Neither of you ever has to feel like you’re missing out either, which can actually make your relationship stronger in many ways.

However, deciding an open relationship could be amazing for both you and your partner is one thing. Successfully convincing your partner to give it a chance is another. Some people are a lot more open to the idea than others. Here we’ll go over a few tips for bringing up the topic, as well as touch on some ways to help a reluctant partner warm up to the idea. Continue reading…

The Ultimate Guide to Having Great Casual Sex

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It goes without saying that there’s a lot to be said for coming home for the holiday season. You get to touch base with friends you haven’t seen in years and fill up on plenty of excellent home cooking. It hardly hurts that you don’t have to worry about all your usual everyday responsibilities for a while either. Even so, even the best winter break can suddenly seem endless if you’re not also getting laid while you’re away and with good reason.

According to Trojan condoms, there’s about a 60% chance that you’ll have some form of casual sex while you’re home for winter break if you’re also young and single. Combine multiple social sex gatherings where there’ll be alcohol served with good old-fashioned end-of-the-year cheer and you definitely have a recipe for such things. Keep the following tips in mind to make sure you get the absolute most out of any experiences you might decide to pursue. Continue reading…

The Dos and Don’ts of Having a One-Night Stand

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A one-night stand is the type of experience that can either be the best thing ever or a total disaster. The difference between the two depends entirely on how you approach things. Yes, one-night stands are meant to be carefree, spontaneous decisions that break all the rules. However, there’s still something of a method to getting things right – a method that can be learned and eventually mastered with enough practice.

The next time you’re on the verge of having a phenomenal one-night encounter, keep these must-know dos and don’ts in mind. You’ll be a lot more likely to have an experience that’s awesome and satisfying for everyone involved.

  1.  DO give yourself permission to go for it.

Start by giving yourself full permission to go after what you want. Not only there’s nothing wrong with having casual sex, but it actually comes attached to a lot of potential benefits. It helps you manage both depression and anxiety. It can help you build confidence and self-esteem. It’s a great way to get the sexual gratification you crave without entering a committed relationship you might not really want or have time for as well. Continue reading…

8 Effective Ways to Get Your Sexual Groove Back

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It goes without saying that even a great life well lived can be super stressful from time to time. Balancing a high-powered career with an active family life and a full social calendar can find even the most virile among us temporarily off our game as a result and it’s not uncommon for our sex lives to be affected.

If it’s happened to you, you already know the frustration, but you should also know that it doesn’t have to be the end of the world. Here we’ll take a closer look at some of the most effective ways to get your groove back when it comes to your bedroom game. We’ll also touch on some key lifestyle factors to keep an eye on in the future. You’ll be feeling more like your usual self again in no time! Continue reading…