Adult Sex Dating: A Quick Start Guide for Pleasure Seekers

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Now that we’re living in the internet age, it goes without saying that dating isn’t what it used to be. Now that social media networks and online dating sites are the norm, we’re no longer limited to socializing with the people we’re likely to meet at work, at school, or through the sometimes painful world of blind dating. We can simply let our fingers do the walking and easily make contact with everyone from fascinating locals to mysterious strangers from the far corners of the world.

But where does the lay of the land as it exists now leave people that are interested in meeting people to have a little adult fun with? Not everyone is looking to make friendship connections or find their “forever love” after all (at least not right this minute). Is online dating really something that works for the adult crowd looking to find local sex with no strings attached? How private is it? What kinds of people make the choice to explore adult sex dating? How and where can someone interested in the possibilities get started? Let’s take a closer look at the answers to all of these questions and more.

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Where Are the Best (and Worst) Places to Have an Affair?

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There are lots of reasons why a person might choose to have an affair. Affairs can be exciting and exhilarating thanks to the element of risk involved. They can be an incredibly effective way to keep your personal needs met while you figure out what you want to do about the relationship you’re already in as well. Plus, let’s face it. Sometimes affairs simply happen no matter what we may think an “ideal” love life looks like on paper.

That said, you’ve just entered a judgment-free zone where you can find out everything you ever wanted to know about having an affair. Where are the best places to conduct your affair? Where are the worst? What else do you need to know about managing the situation so that private goings-on actually stay private? We’re about to cover the answers to all of those questions and more. Continue reading…

Open Relationships: Should There Be Rules?

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Here in the 21st century, we have quite a few options when it comes to many areas of life. This is no less the case with dating than it is anything else. While traditional dating and relationships aren’t completely a thing of the past, we’re no longer stuck doing things that way if we decide it isn’t right for us.

Open relationships in particular represent the best of both worlds. You can enjoy the closeness and security that committed relationships bring to the table, but you’re also still free to explore other people sexually if you wish. However, there’s definitely a right way and a wrong way to approach such a situation.

While ground rules may seem like they miss the point of being in an open relationship in the first place, this is far from the case. Along with communication, rules help both parties get what they’re looking for out of their relationship with one another. It’s also worth noting that society doesn’t make the rules in this sort of situation; you do! Here we’ll take a closer look at how to set some good ones so that you can keep your open relationship happy, healthy, and fulfilling. Continue reading…

Unforgettable Sexts: Send Sexts To Get Her Wet

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At this point, we all probably have several female Facebook friends that complain almost constantly about the number of unsolicited dick pics and overly salacious messages they receive from various dudes. Plus, there always seems to be another story hitting the news about some politician or other professional that landed himself in hot water because he sent someone some naughty texts that he shouldn’t have.

Naturally, that leaves the male population at large wondering about sexting as a concept. Are sexts and naughty pictures ever a good idea? Do women ever actually enjoy receiving them and, if so, do they actually get turned on by what they see? If they do like sexts, what separates a sext that’s totally hot from one that’s a complete flop? Let’s take a closer look at the answers to these questions and more. Continue reading…

Looking for Sex vs Looking for Love

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When it comes to the world of dating, the battle of the sexes is alive and well. The proof can easily be seen in the ways columns and magazines geared toward either men or women address the topic. How can an eager single go about understanding the opposite sex well enough to make a good impression on a first date? How can you better satisfy your partner in bed? What can you do to make sure a given encounter plays out the way you hope it will? How can you write a dating profile capable of attracting the right people?

In other words, most dating advice is all about helping daters better understand the differences between men and women and with good reason. Those differences aren’t all in your head. They’re very real, meaning learning to understand them is a fundamental part of getting what you want out of the dating experience. Let’s take a look at a few of the most important. Continue reading…

Cybersex Dating: 10 Hot Benefits of Getting Laid Online

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The Internet is becoming a bigger and bigger part of how we live our lives. We’re leveraging the power of the web to start businesses and make money. We consume a lot of our music, movies, and other media online. Technology is certainly a major part of how we manage our social lives so it only makes sense that people would be more interested than ever in seeing what the web can do for their sex lives.

That said, cybersex is no longer considered to be just for lonely basement dwellers that can’t get a real date. It’s becoming a healthy, normal part of how today’s tech-savvy individual expresses themselves sexually. It can be a fun and fascinating part of getting to know new people as well. Let’s take a closer look at some of the many reasons why you should make cybersex dating part of your life.

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6 Tips for Getting a Quick Date Through Online Dating

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If the idea of trying to meet your next fling by chatting up random women at the bar, the grocery store, or the gym really leaves you cold, you’re in excellent company. Lots of guys find the process of determining who’s actually available (not to mention interested) to be tedious. Others simply don’t have the time or the patience to spend weekend after weekend club hopping in the hopes that they might run into someone special sooner or later.

That’s where online dating comes in. On an online dating site, you already know that everyone there is available, looking, and at least open to the idea of clicking with someone new. You’re no longer stuck limiting yourself to people you run into by chance either. Even so, there’s a right way and a wrong way to go about the process. Keep the following tips in mind during the process to really maximize your chances of finding what you’re looking for. Continue reading…

11 Useful Tips for Getting Laid

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It goes without saying that committed relationships are fantastic in a number of different ways. However, sometimes you just really want to scratch that all-too-familiar itch without the strings, the commitment, or the seriousness that relationships typically require. In other words, sometimes you just want to have fun, enjoy a good time, and get laid.

Even so, knowing you’re in the mood for a no-strings-attached good time is one thing. Actually, finding one is another. If you feel like you’ve been striking out more than you’d really like lately, you’ve come to the right place. Here we’ll go over some of the best, simplest ways to get laid a lot more often. You’ll be hitting home runs again in no time!

Be yourself.
When you feel like you’re not getting as much action as you’d ideally like, it’s tempting to decide you’re somehow not good enough as you are. Pretending to be someone or something else seems like an easy solution, right? After all, you just want to get laid, not get married, so what difference could it possibly make?

The fact of the matter is people can smell a fake from a mile away. Even more importantly, no one wants to sleep with one. Just relax and be yourself. Not only is it a lot easier than trying to maintain the perfect front, but you’re a lot more likely to hook up with someone whose company you genuinely enjoy. Continue reading…

How to Find a No Strings Attached Fling

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How to Find a No Strings Attached Fling

No strings attached relationships are the type of thing that sounds like a dream come true to millions of people and it’s not hard to see why. You get to tap into everything that’s great about a relationship – the companionship, the fun, and the sex with someone you’re comfortable with – without having to make a serious commitment and tie yourself down.

However, knowing such a relationship sounds like something you’d like to try is one thing. Making sure the experience actually goes the way you want is something else entirely. How can you be sure a no strings attached casual fling is really right for you before you jump right in? How do you maintain the booty call once you find it? Here we’ll discuss the answers to these questions and more.
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How to Find a Fuck Buddy for Easy Casual Sex

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“Friends with benefits” – it’s a term we’ve all heard by now. If you’re like most people, you may even have wondered if it’s right for you and with good reason. While there’s certainly nothing wrong with loving, committed relationships, friends with benefits arrangements bring their own perks to the table. Those that swear by FWB say such relationships come attached to better, hotter sex and much less heartbreak among other things.

However, knowing “friends with benefits” is something you’d like to try for yourself and actually finding a situation that works for you are two different matters. Let’s take a closer look at how you choose the right person, how you get things started, and how you successfully maintain the relationship to everyone’s benefit.

 

How Do Relationships Between Fuck Friends Start?

It’s the question most people that have never been in a FWB relationship before have right off the bat – how do you actually go from just knowing someone to actually being bona fide sex buddies? The fact of the matter is it starts differently for everyone.

In some cases, the buddy in question is just someone you know and like, but don’t have a super close emotional connection to. It could be an old friend from your school days that you reconnected with over Facebook. It could be a hot waiter you flirt with every time you grab a bite at your favorite restaurant, a sexy acquaintance a friend introduced you to, or a random hook-up you really hit it off with.Mixxxer Map on mobile phone

In most cases these days, adventurous people find sex buddies on casual dating sites like Mixxxer.com. Services like Mixxxer are useful because they don’t rely on luck, you don’t have to just happen to know or meet someone who you hope holds a mutual interest in casual sex. And you don’t have to build up the courage to suggest it. On sites like Mixxxer, everyone there is just like you and looking for the same thing. All you need to do is chat with everyone you like and choose who you like best. You could find an easy hookup tonight, as opposed to ‘maybe’ this month or year.
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Politics and Sex – How to Scandalize Your Next Casual Date

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Election season is a time when the blood runs high, people get loud and there’s a whole lot of friction going on. Sound familiar? The truth is that politics and sex are intrinsically linked, as shown by the public’s absolute fascination with sex scandals, particularly in delicate times in the electoral cycle. Why not harness some of that energy (literally, if you’re kinky!) and get a little “head” of state action going on in your own bedroom? Here are some erotic election-inspired ideas that you can use in your very own political positions:

Sexy Role Playing

Make the most of your sex app this election season by encouraging your online dates to get into the role of candidate and campaign staffer with a little roleplay. Use your influence as a charismatic candidate to talk your willing intern right out of his or her clothes and show them why you’re the very best pick to truly satisfy the country’s needs. Bonus points for turning traditional campaign props into sexy accessories – smaller campaign signs make great in-a-pinch spanking paddles!
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