Adult Sex Dating: A Quick Start Guide for Pleasure Seekers

bathroom-blowjob

Now that we’re living in the internet age, it goes without saying that dating isn’t what it used to be. Now that social media networks and online dating sites are the norm, we’re no longer limited to socializing with the people we’re likely to meet at work, at school, or through the sometimes painful world of blind dating. We can simply let our fingers do the walking and easily make contact with everyone from fascinating locals to mysterious strangers from the far corners of the world.

But where does the lay of the land as it exists now leave people that are interested in meeting people to have a little adult fun with? Not everyone is looking to make friendship connections or find their “forever love” after all (at least not right this minute). Is online dating really something that works for the adult crowd looking to find local sex with no strings attached? How private is it? What kinds of people make the choice to explore adult sex dating? How and where can someone interested in the possibilities get started? Let’s take a closer look at the answers to all of these questions and more.

Continue reading…

How to Stay Positive About Dating: Tips to Keep in Mind

Bored girl on date

Most of us have something of a love-hate relationship with dating and it’s not hard to see why. On the one hand, meeting new people and allowing yourself to get excited about the possibilities can be a real blast. On the other, dating comes with more than its share of drama as well. It can be especially hard to find other people that actually want the same things you do, especially if you prefer no-strings-attached dating to traditional relationships.

All things considered, it’s understandable if you find it hard to stay positive about dating instead of just throwing in the towel altogether. Here we’ll discuss some ways you can actually stay optimistic about the whole thing and increase your chances of finding the type of connection you’re really looking for. Continue reading…

6 Telltale Signs Your Sex Life Is Going Stale (and What to Do About It)

Bored couple in bed

Here in 2017, it seems as if people are more open sexually than ever before. People talk freely about once-taboo topics like female sexuality and sex toys of all types. It’s totally acceptable to have an interest in open relationships or casual sex. Books like Fifty Shades of Grey are achieving bestseller status and starting frank conversations all over social media as well. So why are so many of us still falling into sexual ruts and settling for stale, stagnant sex lives?

At the end of the day, sex is just like anything else. It’s totally possible to fall into a routine and get stuck there, especially if you’ve been sleeping with the same person for a long while. Don’t be fooled though. You can still settle into a stale sexual routine even if you’re single and unattached to any one person in particular. Here we’ll go over some of the surest signs that your sex life is going stale and could really use a jump start. We’ll touch on some ways you can give it the jolt it needs as well. Continue reading…

8 Tips for Keeping a Casual Sex Relationship Casual

Intimate couple in bed using phone

While there’s definitely nothing wrong with being in a committed long-term relationship, there’s a lot to be said for casual dating as well. When you keep things casual, you still get to enjoy a connection with another person, but in a way that stays fresh, fun, and exciting. Plus, you’re both always free to explore as many or as few other options as you like. Your connection lasts as long as you’re both having fun. Then you simply go your separate ways without pressure, drama, or obligation.

In other words, casual sex relationships are pretty much the best of both worlds. However, getting into a casual, no-strings-attached relationship is pretty easy. Keeping it casual is sometimes a challenge. Here we’ll go over some tips for making sure your relationships stay exactly the way you want them – fun, sexy, and obligation free. Continue reading…

8 Things Men Think Women Lie About on Their Dating Profiles

Woman bent over in mini skirt

There’s definitely a lot to love about online dating, especially if you’re a guy that’s still playing the field. Instead of trying to find the energy to hit the club or the bars after a long work week, you can simply log on and get to know as many new women as you like whenever you have a moment. Plus, you can cut right to the chase online and easily find gorgeous, vivacious women that want the same things you do whether that’s a serious relationship, a friends with benefits connection, or just plain social sex.

There’s only one thing that can throw a wrench in the machine – the possibility that the smoking hot chick who seems too good to be true actually is. And you’re right to be worried about that because statistics show that around 80% of all dating profiles contain at least one lie. So how honest is the average woman on her dating profile? Are free sex sites offering dating services reliable? Are other men worried about the same things you are? How can you tell the difference and lower your own chances of being lied to?

Here we’ll go over the most common things men worry women are lying about. We’ll touch on a few tells you can watch for if you doubt a given person’s honesty at any point as well. Continue reading…

Where Are the Best (and Worst) Places to Have an Affair?

Couple having an affair in bedroom

There are lots of reasons why a person might choose to have an affair. Affairs can be exciting and exhilarating thanks to the element of risk involved. They can be an incredibly effective way to keep your personal needs met while you figure out what you want to do about the relationship you’re already in as well. Plus, let’s face it. Sometimes affairs simply happen no matter what we may think an “ideal” love life looks like on paper.

That said, you’ve just entered a judgment-free zone where you can find out everything you ever wanted to know about having an affair. Where are the best places to conduct your affair? Where are the worst? What else do you need to know about managing the situation so that private goings-on actually stay private? We’re about to cover the answers to all of those questions and more. Continue reading…

Open Relationships: Should There Be Rules?

Mixxxer Foursome in Bed

Here in the 21st century, we have quite a few options when it comes to many areas of life. This is no less the case with dating than it is anything else. While traditional dating and relationships aren’t completely a thing of the past, we’re no longer stuck doing things that way if we decide it isn’t right for us.

Open relationships in particular represent the best of both worlds. You can enjoy the closeness and security that committed relationships bring to the table, but you’re also still free to explore other people sexually if you wish. However, there’s definitely a right way and a wrong way to approach such a situation.

While ground rules may seem like they miss the point of being in an open relationship in the first place, this is far from the case. Along with communication, rules help both parties get what they’re looking for out of their relationship with one another. It’s also worth noting that society doesn’t make the rules in this sort of situation; you do! Here we’ll take a closer look at how to set some good ones so that you can keep your open relationship happy, healthy, and fulfilling. Continue reading…

Unforgettable Sexts: Send Sexts To Get Her Wet

Girl sending a nude text

At this point, we all probably have several female Facebook friends that complain almost constantly about the number of unsolicited dick pics and overly salacious messages they receive from various dudes. Plus, there always seems to be another story hitting the news about some politician or other professional that landed himself in hot water because he sent someone some naughty texts that he shouldn’t have.

Naturally, that leaves the male population at large wondering about sexting as a concept. Are sexts and naughty pictures ever a good idea? Do women ever actually enjoy receiving them and, if so, do they actually get turned on by what they see? If they do like sexts, what separates a sext that’s totally hot from one that’s a complete flop? Let’s take a closer look at the answers to these questions and more. Continue reading…

Looking for Sex vs Looking for Love

Girl with bright red lipstick holding finger to lips

When it comes to the world of dating, the battle of the sexes is alive and well. The proof can easily be seen in the ways columns and magazines geared toward either men or women address the topic. How can an eager single go about understanding the opposite sex well enough to make a good impression on a first date? How can you better satisfy your partner in bed? What can you do to make sure a given encounter plays out the way you hope it will? How can you write a dating profile capable of attracting the right people?

In other words, most dating advice is all about helping daters better understand the differences between men and women and with good reason. Those differences aren’t all in your head. They’re very real, meaning learning to understand them is a fundamental part of getting what you want out of the dating experience. Let’s take a look at a few of the most important. Continue reading…

Cybersex Dating: 10 Hot Benefits of Getting Laid Online

Virtual cybersex on Mixxxer

The Internet is becoming a bigger and bigger part of how we live our lives. We’re leveraging the power of the web to start businesses and make money. We consume a lot of our music, movies, and other media online. Technology is certainly a major part of how we manage our social lives so it only makes sense that people would be more interested than ever in seeing what the web can do for their sex lives.

That said, cybersex is no longer considered to be just for lonely basement dwellers that can’t get a real date. It’s becoming a healthy, normal part of how today’s tech-savvy individual expresses themselves sexually. It can be a fun and fascinating part of getting to know new people as well. Let’s take a closer look at some of the many reasons why you should make cybersex dating part of your life.

Continue reading…

6 Tips for Getting a Quick Date Through Online Dating

Sexy couple in jacuzzi

If the idea of trying to meet your next fling by chatting up random women at the bar, the grocery store, or the gym really leaves you cold, you’re in excellent company. Lots of guys find the process of determining who’s actually available (not to mention interested) to be tedious. Others simply don’t have the time or the patience to spend weekend after weekend club hopping in the hopes that they might run into someone special sooner or later.

That’s where online dating comes in. On an online dating site, you already know that everyone there is available, looking, and at least open to the idea of clicking with someone new. You’re no longer stuck limiting yourself to people you run into by chance either. Even so, there’s a right way and a wrong way to go about the process. Keep the following tips in mind during the process to really maximize your chances of finding what you’re looking for. Continue reading…