5 Expert Tips for Making Women Online Want to Meet You in Person

Making Women Online Want to Meet You in Person

Whether you’re meeting them via your favorite dating apps or striking up conversations on Twitter and Facebook, datable women aren’t willing to meet just any random guy from the internet in person. Standing out from the rest of the pack and getting a hot woman to talk to you is tough enough, but convincing her that it’s worth her while to get together is another animal altogether.

You may not be able to make her melt with your smoldering gaze or your confident body language over email or chat, but there are plenty of ways to show her you’re worth it anyway. Here are a few expert tips to get you started.

1.      Make sure you’re on the right platform.

Although there’s nothing wrong with being open to all the possibilities, you’ll have better luck meeting women that want what you want if you choose your platform with care. For instance, as fun as Twitter can be, it’s not a dating site, and most women on there aren’t going to think it’s cute when you treat it like one.

The same goes for actual dating sites. They’re not all the same. Sure, lots of people use Tinder to score a quick and dirty hookup once in a while, but that’s not really what the platform was created for. You’ll have better luck attracting women who are interested in sex only if you switch to an option like Mixxxer that’s strictly about that.

2.      Don’t be pushy or fake.

Online dating is a lot safer than it used to be back in the day, but many women are still somewhat hesitant to meet up with a new guy in person. Pushing her too hard or too fast isn’t going to speed things along. It’ll make her call it quits without a second thought, so it’s important to let your conversations and growing connection evolve naturally at their own pace.

Don’t merely assume that laying the compliments on extra-thick will soften her up, either. If anything, too many compliments too soon make you come across as fake or disingenuous, especially if you don’t really know her yet. Being genuine and personable is always a better approach.

3.      Don’t get artsy with your photos.

Even smoking hot people usually have a few insecurities when it comes to their looks, so the temptation to fudge the facts with your photo choices can be intense sometimes. You’ll want to resist it, though. If your ultimate goal is to meet up in person, they’ll see what you look like eventually anyway, so you might as well be upfront about your appearance from the start.

Make sure any photos you send or post to your profile are clear, well-lit, current, and actually representative of your real appearance. Not only will women respond to the confidence and forthrightness you’re showing in your photo choices, but you’ll avoid any future awkwardness by appearing exactly as advertised when you do meet up.

4.      Show you’ve got some depth.

Most women attract a lot of interest from men online. Every last one of those men buries them up to their necks in compliments, and plenty of them are good-looking to boot. The best way to set yourself apart from the rest of the pack is to show the benefits of knowing you are more than just skin deep.

Make an effort to open up during your conversations and talk about real things. Get into your dreams, hopes, and fears. Talk about topics you genuinely care about and things you truly love to do with your time. Even if you’re only looking for a quick hookup and strictly talking about sex, it still pays to be different. Talk about what really gets your engine running. Women love a guy who’s unafraid of being honest, real, and deep.

5.      Ask her real questions.

Way too many guys looking to meet women online wholly forget to show a real interest in the other person. Some go on and on about themselves without remembering to ask their conversation partner a single question about herself. Don’t be that guy, because no woman is the least little bit interested in meeting him.

Ask her about herself, but don’t just stick to small talk-style questions. She’s undoubtedly had lots of guys ask her what she does for a living, but probably very few of them have thought to ask her what made her want to go into that field in the first place. Look for ways to show a genuine interest in who she is and what makes her tick. She’s a lot more likely to want to see more of you, hopefully offline at some point. Just be yourself, put your best foot forward, and go for it!

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