The 5 Best Cunnilingus Positions That will Make Her Quiver

As a former adult film actress, when it comes to sexual pleasure, I’ve seen it all (or at least I’ve seen enough). And as much fun as I have talking about the wild and crazy sexual experiences I’ve had, it’s actually the cunnilingus scenes I remember the most. ESPECIALLY if the guy (or girl) really knew what they were doing.

There’s something far more intimate about giving and receiving cunnilingus, especially if it leads to an orgasm (or many! tee hee hee).

To really make a woman quiver and shake with pleasure, it’s all about finding the right positions. Sure, there’s always the classic “head between the thighs” position, but why settle for basic when you can have mind-blowing!?

That’s why I’m going to share my top 5 cunnilingus sex positions that will make any woman moan and beg for more.

Are you ready to take your cunnilingus game to the next level?? I’ll start with the most basic and end with the most advanced cunnilingus positions. Just remember, that simple is sometimes better. You or your partner don’t have to be an acrobat or contortionist to achieve orgasm through oral sex. You just need persistence and technique.

Let’s dive in:

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What is Cunnilingus?

First, the basics. What is cunnilingus? for me, it’s always just been a funny word for oral sex. After a little googling, I can tell you its derived from the Latin words for “vulva” (cunnus) and “to lick” (lingo). Put them together and you get cunnilingus I guess. What would I know, I definitely wasn’t a Latin major 😉

Some other names for cunnilingus are:

  • Oral sex
  • Drinking from the furry cup
  • Muff diving
  • Carpet munching
  • Giving lip
  • Tipping the velvet

And some of the slang terms I found to be hilarious are:

  • The adult happy meal
  • Fuzzburger
  • Kissing the wookie
  • Kneel at the alter
  • Velvet buzzsaw

Cunnilingus is an incredibly intimate experience for both parties involved. There’s something magical about exploring every inch of your partner’s body with your tongue.

It’s a way to show your partner that you value their pleasure just as much as your own, because let’s face it, oral sex can be exhausting for the giver!

Not only can good cunnilingus lead to some mind blowing orgasms, it can also strengthen a relationship (if that’s what you’re looking to do).

When someone takes the time to give you, or at least attempt, an orgasm through oral sex, it shows that they care about you and really want to make you feel good.

In this way, it creates a deeper connection between partners that can lead to more trust, intimacy, and satisfaction in all areas of the relationship.

So it’s safe to say, that nearly ALL woman (90% to be exact) enjoy oral sex.

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Now on to the positions:

1) The Classic Oral Sex Position

Illustration of the Classic Oral sex position

This is by far the most popular cunnilingus position practiced in bedrooms across the globe. It’s simple, yet effective. The woman lies on her back, places her legs up on her partner’s back, spreads herself open and simply enjoys. It’s a classic for a reason!

The classic oral sex position is great for cunnilingus because the giver has easy access to the clitoris and vulva.

This position allows them to use their tongue, lips, and fingers to stimulate the clit, vagina and anus all at the same time.

This is also a great position for G-spot stimulation. If you really want to make your partner scream, insert a finger or two into her vagina stimulating her clit with your tongue.

2) The Queening Oral Sex Position

Illustration of the Queening sex position

As the name implies, this puts me into a dominating position over my partner, which really turns me on.

Most know this position as “face-sitting”. This popular cunnilingus position, again as the name implies, involves the woman sitting right on top of their partner, straddling their face.

And as the Queen, the female partner is free to relax and enjoy being pleased by her “servant”, who’s hands are also free to explore her body.

This position really allows the giving partner to explore deep within a woman’s vagina with their tongue. Especially if the woman is grinding on top of their face, which is something I really enjoy doing 😉

3) The Standing Oral Sex Position

Illustration of the Standing Oral sex position

Similar to Queening, I love this one because it puts me in a position of power over my partner. In fact, another name for this positions is the “Queen’s Dream.”

You’ll find that many women these days enjoy this feeling.

The partner performing the act of oral sex sits on the floor in a very submissive position between the receiver’s legs, making them feel like their partner’s subject.

As the receiving partner, you can grab your partner’s head and move your hips around to really control the level of oral stimulation.

For guys, you’ve got free hands in this position, so use them! I love it when a man tickles the back of my thighs or, for the more daring, inserts a well lubricated finger into my anus.

4) The Doggy Style Oral Sex Position

Illustration of the Doggy Style oral sex position

Not only is doggy style oral good for cunnilingus, it’s absolutely amazing for analingus too!

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It’s a fairly simple position to get into. Both partners are on all fours which the partner performing the oral sex just chows down on the woman’s vagina or ass.

For me, this oral position is a major turn on because I’m fully exposing my vagina and anus to my partner in a very animalistic way.

5) The 69 Oral Sex Position

Illustration of the 69 oral sex position

No oral sex list would be complete without this classic being on it. The 69 position is all about mutual pleasure, and while it might not be ideal for achieving an orgasm, it’s absolutely amazing for foreplay!

Starting with this, then shifting into doggy style oral or the queen position will lead to some involuntary moaning…I promise.

Bonus Cunnilingus Tips

Cunnilingus is an art form. And like any art form, it requires practice.

That being said, there’s a few techniques and tips I can share with you that will definitely help get her to the big O.

1) Write the alphabet with your tongue

Who knew saying the ABCs could be so much fun.

Start at the top and trace a letter with your tongue around the woman’s clitoris. Then move on to the next one.

Keep changing the letters and patterns to mix things up and keep it interesting. You’ll soon find out which letters she likes the most 😉

2) Use your hands

Don’t just rely on your tongue alone, use your hands to help stimulate her. This will give you more control and allow you to vary the pressure and speed much easier.

Try different techniques such as rubbing, flicking, or lightly pinching.

3) Know when to be gentle

The clitoris is an extremely sensitive part of a woman’s body, so be careful not to overstimulate it.

Pay attention to her reactions and adjust accordingly. Sometimes less is more when it comes to oral sex.

4) Keep things wet

Make sure to keep things wet by using your saliva or a water-based lubricant.

This will not only feel better for her but also make it easier for you to move your tongue around smoothly.

5) Explore different areas

The clitoris is the most obvious area to focus on, but there are other erogenous zones around the vagina that can also give her pleasure.

Don’t be afraid to explore around and find what works best for her. The more variety and stimulation she receives, the more likely she’ll have an amazing orgasm.

 

Paige Davis

Paige Davis

The girl in the group. Trying to add some much needed estrogen to the Mixxxer fam.

I've been writing guides and lifestyle pieces for more than 6 years now.

I worked both in front and behind the camera in the adult film business. And I hold a masters in psychology.

You'll find there's a lot of psych majors in the adult industry. So careful guys, you may want to get into our pants, but we know how to get into your heads ;)

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