How to Find Casual Sex Partners

If you want to find casual sex partners, you should know it is possible without six-pack abs, a six-figure salary and six feet of height.  Contrary to popular opinion, plenty of women are also on the quest to find casual sex.

The challenge lies in figuring out how to meet women who are also on the prowl for a casual sex partner.  You have surfed your way over to the right corner of the web as we have all the answers you are looking for.

Without further ado, let’s take a look at the best strategies for finding casual sex partners near you.

Casual Sex Explained

Casual sex is exactly as it sounds.  A casual sex partner is one who willingly has sex with another person without any strings attached.  Casual sex partners have the potential to enter into a serious and lasting relationship with one another, yet the expectation is that they will sexually gratify one another without making a commitment.

In fact, most casual sex partners are accepting of the fact that their partner has the potential to “ghost” them, meaning they might eventually disappear without returning texts or phone calls.

Pros and Cons of Casual Sex Partners

There are more positives to negatives in having casual sex partners.  A casual sex partner satisfies your sexual needs without monopolizing your time and energy.  Casual sex partners typically meet up for a brief social interaction, engage in sexual intercourse and go their separate ways until the next sex session.

Casual sex relationships are mutually beneficial to both parties as neither is required to make a potentially stifling commitment to a single sex partner.  Some men and women have multiple casual sex partners at the same time.

However, there is a potential downside to maintaining a “roster” of casual sex partners in that engaging in sexual intercourse with several individuals heightens the chances of contracting a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

How to Find Casual Sex Partners Near You

Finding a casual sex partner near you isn’t as challenging as you might assume.  Though plenty of women and men comply with social expectations when in public, the truth is many are willing to engage in casual sex with one or more partners even though society stresses the importance of monogamous relationships.

The days of cold approaching women are fading away, yet it is still possible to find a casual sex partner by introducing yourself to someone you find attractive.  In short, the quest for casual sex is a numbers game.

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Introduce yourself to enough potential casual sex partners and you will eventually find one willing to reciprocate.  Though it is not guaranteed that everyone who reciprocates your interest is willing to engage in casual sex, you’ll eventually find someone seeking casual sex if you extend enough metaphorical social olive branches.

Finding Casual Sex Partners Online

Let’s shift our attention to finding casual sex on the web as the internet has quickly become the most popular domain for connecting with sex partners.  It is becoming that much easier to find casual sex on free adult dating and free sex sites.

Upload your picture to a free sex site, fill out your profile, make it clear you are interested in casual sex, and you will eventually find someone looking for the same.

In fact, some such websites make it easy to find casual sex without passing through extensive hoops and ladders in the form of time-consuming social interactions.

Examples of the top hookup websites include AdultFriendFinder, AshleyMadison, NoStringsAttached and Seeking Arrangement.  Join one or several of these hookup sites and stress your unique identity and interests when filling out your profile.  Upload several flattering pictures, make it clear you are interested in casual sex and get to chatting.

Respond to messages in a timely manner and you’ll maximize your chances of hooking up with a potential sex partner before the competition gets to her (or him).  Here’s a quick look at the top hookup websites.

Adult Friend Finder

AdultFriendFinder ads have likely popped up on your computer screen when surfing the web.  This site has in excess of 60 million members for good reason.

Start an AdultFriendFinder account for free, engage in live chats and you’ll be on your way to finding a casual sex partner.  Starting at a mere $17 per month, AdultFriendFinder makes it easy to connect with casual sex partners in surprisingly little time.


XMatch provides supplemental information about casual sex partners beyond their picture and username.  If you are willing to share some personal information and would like to delve a bit below the surface of a potential casual sex match, create a profile on this site and you’ll maximize your chances of finding the optimal hookup partner.

XMatch profiles contain fields for videos, pictures, a blog and even a My Kinks sexual preferences section.  Search through the site’s profiles, play the “hot or not” match game to pair up with a potential flame and the stage will be set to engage in casual sex without a lengthy wait.

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Get It ON

Wouldn’t it be nice to search through sexual classified ads without being inundated with spam?  You can do exactly that with Get It ON.  This hookup site eliminates the barriers in the way of one-night stands with some of the hottest singles in your area.

Starting at an affordable $5.95 per month, specializes in matching casual sex-seekers with like-minded individuals.  Simply fill out your profile with your preferences in the context of sexuality and lifestyle and you’ll be on your way to connecting with locals for sex without the weight of a traditional relationship.


FriendFinder-X is unique in that it has a comical element in addition to its opportunities for casual sex.  Featuring one of the most diverse user bases of all the casual sex hookup sites, FriendFinder-X is fun, easygoing, and direct.

As long as you have a decent sense of humor, detest drama and want casual sex, create a FriendFinder-X profile and it won’t be long until you are hooking up with some of the sexiest singles in your area.


Matt Manes

Matt Manes

I am the original creator of the Mixxxer hookup app which became one of the most popular hookup services on the web.

Over the years, I've observed and learned a great deal about what works and what doesn't when it comes to dating and hooking up online.

While most guys learn through trial and error, I learned through analyzing the data from the millions of Mixxxer members we catered too.