10 Essential Flirting Tips Every Guy Needs to Know

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We all know a guy that never seems to have trouble chatting up women and getting what he wants from them whether that’s a relationship or a one-night hook-up. He’s cool, he’s casual, and he seems to genuinely enjoy flirting. He’s also no doubt the kind of guy you’d ultimately like to become when it comes to dating and hooking up. However, knowing that is one thing, achieving it is another.

We’re here to tell you that it’s far from impossible. All you need is a proper understanding of how go about things. Here we’ll go over everything you need to know to flirt like an absolute pro. We’ll cover how to read a woman’s response to your flirting and successfully close the deal as well.

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Why You Should Break Up with Your Dating App for Mixxxer

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We’re definitely not living in our grandparents’ world anymore when it comes to sex, and if you’re like most people, you couldn’t be happier about that. These days, it’s increasingly socially acceptable to handle your sex life however you like. Modern technology even makes it easier than ever to get laid at moment’s notice.

Don’t simply assume that all avenues are created equally when you’re looking to get laid though. Sure, Tinder might be a more convenient solution than yet another boring Friday night at the club, but it’s far from the best way to get laid on the fly. That honor should really go to Mixxxer, and the following are some of the best reasons why.

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Online Dating for Men 101: How to Stand Out in All the Right Ways

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If you’re a man who’s into online dating, the sheer number of possibilities out there these days can be both a blessing and a curse. On the one hand, there are hundreds of hot, available women out there to choose from. On the other, there are just as many single guys out there looking for the same thing you are. A lot of those guys will be better looking, smarter, or more interesting than you are, so standing out can be a real challenge. Here we’ll go over everything you need to know to get the women you want to not only take a second look at you, but be interested enough to take the next step.

Getting Started in the Right Direction

Before you can get what you want from your online dating scene of choice, you need to truly understand what you’re looking for. If you’re really only interested inCasual sex couple casual relationships or no-strings-attached sex, don’t waste your time on interfaces that are aimed at people looking for something serious (and vice versa).

You’ll also want to set your profile up in a way that makes it crystal clear what you’re doing there. Try to put yourself in the shoes of your ideal woman. What would she likely see as a turn-on or a turn-off in a potential date? Build your profile accordingly.

To Share or Not to Share

You definitely want to make sure your profile accurately represents who you are and what you’re into, but you don’t want to overshare. Even a very interested person’s attention span is going to have its limits. No one is going to read patiently through a novel-length list of interests or a bio section that’s basically a massive wall of text.

Plus, you want to leave a little something to the imagination. Ideally, you want to let a woman know the gist of what you’re about, what you’re like, and what you’re looking for. However, you also want to leave her wanting more. A curious woman is a woman who says “yes” to a date so that she can find out more about the guy in question.

Making Your Photos Count

You already know that pictures matter when it comes to getting noticed on a dating site or a hookup app. However, you also need to know that the photos you think paint you in the best possible light aren’t necessarily also going to be photos women are interested in. In other words, you might want to rethink those fishing pics or all those shots of you posing in front of your car wearing shades.

Man looking in mirrorWomen like photos that clearly show a guy’s face, preferably while smiling and staring directly at the camera. Photos that spark conversation or pique curiosity are also good choices. If you’re using an interface that’s all about hooking up and casual encounters, you can show off some of your other goods as well, but it’s definitely possible to go too far on that front as well. Remember, leave a little something to the imagination. Give her a reason to want to interact with you.

Be Personable

Of course, catching and holding a woman’s attention long enough to get her curious is only half the battle. You’ve got to know what to do next. Originality is a good place to start for sure. Don’t use canned pick-up lines or generic messages to open a conversation. You need to show her you see her as an actual individual, as opposed to just another girl to shoot a message to. (Referring back to something unique you saw on her profile is always a good idea.)

You definitely also want to be straight with her. If she asks you a question, be polite, but definitely give her a genuine answer instead of the one you think she wants to hear. Ask her questions about herself as well. Don’t pretend to be into her if you’re not. You’re both adults. If you’re not interested, just politely say so.

Pay Attention to Boundaries 

Even the most forward women don’t like it when men balk at boundaries and try to push for more than what’s being offered, so always be respectful. Keep in mind that every woman’s different. Even on a hookup app, some women are going to be down to get dirty right away, while others will want to ease into things first.

You will want to keep the end goal in mind though – offline, in-person interaction of whatever type you’re interested in. Take some time to chat a little bit first, but don’t wait too long to ask her out or suggest meeting up. Standing out online is only enough to get your foot in the door. It’s still ultimately up to you to close the deal.

Looking for Sex vs Looking for Love

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When it comes to the world of dating, the battle of the sexes is alive and well. The proof can easily be seen in the ways columns and magazines geared toward either men or women address the topic. How can an eager single go about understanding the opposite sex well enough to make a good impression on a first date? How can you better satisfy your partner in bed? What can you do to make sure a given encounter plays out the way you hope it will? How can you write a dating profile capable of attracting the right people?

In other words, most dating advice is all about helping daters better understand the differences between men and women and with good reason. Those differences aren’t all in your head. They’re very real, meaning learning to understand them is a fundamental part of getting what you want out of the dating experience. Let’s take a look at a few of the most important. Continue reading…

6 Tips for Getting a Quick Date Through Online Dating

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If the idea of trying to meet your next fling by chatting up random women at the bar, the grocery store, or the gym really leaves you cold, you’re in excellent company. Lots of guys find the process of determining who’s actually available (not to mention interested) to be tedious. Others simply don’t have the time or the patience to spend weekend after weekend club hopping in the hopes that they might run into someone special sooner or later.

That’s where online dating comes in. On an online dating site, you already know that everyone there is available, looking, and at least open to the idea of clicking with someone new. You’re no longer stuck limiting yourself to people you run into by chance either. Even so, there’s a right way and a wrong way to go about the process. Keep the following tips in mind during the process to really maximize your chances of finding what you’re looking for. Continue reading…

Online Dating: Exploring a Whole New World of Possibilities

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Here in the 21st century, it’s clear to see that online socializing of all types is here to stay. That definitely includes online dating. Thanks to the growing popularity of web-based dating sites and social networks, people now have a nearly infinite pool of potential partners to choose from. You’re no longer limited only to people that live in your immediate vicinity. You don’t have to rely on bars, clubs, or blind dates as the only ways to meet new and available people anymore. These days, you have access to a wealth of fun, new ways to meet fascinating people that are as like you (or different from you) as you choose.

However, deciding that online dating might be right for you and actually figuring out where to start and how to get the most out of the experience is quite another. Here we’ll take a closer look at the ins and outs of the entire experience. We’ll discuss what to look for in an online dating site and how to put together a profile that will help you put your best face forward. We’ll touch on some basic safety tips to keep in mind, too. You’ll be feeling like a regular online dating champ in no time flat.

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Adult Sex Dating: A Quick Start Guide for Pleasure Seekers

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Now that we’re living in the internet age, it goes without saying that dating isn’t what it used to be. Now that social media networks and online dating sites are the norm, we’re no longer limited to socializing with the people we’re likely to meet at work, at school, or through the sometimes painful world of blind dating. We can simply let our fingers do the walking and easily make contact with everyone from fascinating locals to mysterious strangers from the far corners of the world.

But where does the lay of the land as it exists now leave people that are interested in meeting people to have a little adult fun with? Not everyone is looking to make friendship connections or find their “forever love” after all (at least not right this minute). Is online dating really something that works for the adult crowd looking to find local sex with no strings attached? How private is it? What kinds of people make the choice to explore adult sex dating? How and where can someone interested in the possibilities get started? Let’s take a closer look at the answers to all of these questions and more.

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