Your Guide to Better No-Strings Attached Sex: Where to Get It, Who to Do It With, and How to Make Sure It’s Hot

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If you’ve been having casual sex for a while but also wishing your average encounter was better, easier, or hotter, you’re hardly alone. Plenty of people decide to go the no-strings-attached route because they love the idea of easy, drama-free sex only to wind up frustrated when things don’t go as expected or desired. If that sounds familiar, then it could be time to redefine how you think of no-strings-attached sex in the first place.

Far too many people assume that casual sex by definition doesn’t require any care, planning, or forethought. In actuality, those things are pretty necessary if you’re serious about making no-strings-attached as awesome and hassle-free as it sounds on paper. The following are just a few tips to keep in mind. Continue reading…

10 Things You May Not Have Known About One Night Stands

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Hook-up culture is definitely a lot more mainstream these days, but that hardly means those that enjoy the associated lifestyle don’t have the occasional question. How much of what we believe about why people have one-night stands or casual sex is fact and how much is fiction? Sure, it feels like the most natural thing in the world, but are we truly predisposed as humans to prefer casual sex?

You may wonder how “average” you really are as compared to others who prefer casual sex as well. Here we’ll go over some interesting facts, figures, and discoveries about casual sex and one-night stands, the better to answer your burning questions. How many of the following facts did you already know?

  1. Your preference for casual sex could be genetic.

If you’ve always instinctively gravitated toward casual sex and open relationships because they feel more natural to you, it might be because of something that’s written in your genes. According to one study conducted by the State University of New York, some people actually are born predisposed toward a preference for casual sex thanks to a “hook-up gene”.

The gene in question is the DRD4 gene. Those that inherit that gene are more likely to prefer one-night stands, as well as more likely than average to cheat within the confines of monogamous relationships. They’re also more likely to crave “sensation-seeking” experiences in general (i.e. gambling or drug-related highs). Continue reading…

8 Effective Ways to Get Your Sexual Groove Back

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It goes without saying that even a great life well lived can be super stressful from time to time. Balancing a high-powered career with an active family life and a full social calendar can find even the most virile among us temporarily off our game as a result and it’s not uncommon for our sex lives to be affected.

If it’s happened to you, you already know the frustration, but you should also know that it doesn’t have to be the end of the world. Here we’ll take a closer look at some of the most effective ways to get your groove back when it comes to your bedroom game. We’ll also touch on some key lifestyle factors to keep an eye on in the future. You’ll be feeling more like your usual self again in no time! Continue reading…

9 Surprising Benefits of Having Casual Sex

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Casual sex is the type of thing that gets a bad rap in certain circles, but it really shouldn’t. No, it’s definitely not right for everyone, but for some people it’s actually many times more beneficial than being in a monogamous relationship. Here we’ll take a closer look at some of the many ways indulging your interest in casual sex is actually an excellent idea for the right type of person, the better to help you determine whether or not it’s right for you.

  1. It’s really empowering from a sexual standpoint.

If you’re like most people, you’ve probably had certain ideas about sex drilled into your head from the time you were really young. To be more specific, you were probably taught that having sex is and should be something that happens only within the context of a committed relationship. To choose to do otherwise is “dirty”, “wrong”, and “immoral”.

For someone that was raised on such notions, asserting and acting on your true desires in regards to sex can be incredibly liberating. This is especially the case for women who tend to grow up with even more sexually limiting stereotypes than men do. Defying a widespread stereotype and refusing to let it dictate your life for you quite simply feels good and is well worth trying. It shows others that it’s OK to live their own truth as well.

  1. It can help you get over your inhibitions.

The beginning stage of a new relationship is definitely an exciting time. However, it also tends to be a time of anxiety, worry, and apprehension. Since we’re focused on making sure the connection lasts, even the most confident among us is usually hyper-concerned with wanting that other person to like us and think well of us. Unfortunately that can mean we aren’t necessarily as honest and open about things like fetishes or fantasies as we might be later on.

When you take the commitment out of the equation, there’s not as much at stake emotionally. You’re free to be present right there in the moment and focus on having the most satisfying sex possible. Most people are less inhibited as a result and feel more comfortable asking for what they really want in bed. Continue reading…

Can You Really Find Dates Through Adult Dating Sites?

Adult dating on Mixxxer Once upon a time, mainstream dating sites like Match.com or eHarmony may have been seen as solutions to be skeptical of, but now they’re completely ordinary ways to meet people and roll the dice in search of love. At this point, millions have found lasting love via such avenues and no one really thinks twice about using them. They simply trust that the system is effective and go for it. But what if you’re not interested in “happily ever after” at this exact point in your life? What if you just want to have some fun with cool people and maybe get laid a little more often? Adult dating sites are definitely one way to go, but they’re a lot less mainstream than more traditional options. Do they actually work and if so, what’s the protocol for actually having a good experience? Allow us to provide answers to all of your burning questions. Continue reading…

11 Useful Tips for Getting Laid

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It goes without saying that committed relationships are fantastic in a number of different ways. However, sometimes you just really want to scratch that all-too-familiar itch without the strings, the commitment, or the seriousness that relationships typically require. In other words, sometimes you just want to have fun, enjoy a good time, and get laid.

Even so, knowing you’re in the mood for a no-strings-attached good time is one thing. Actually, finding one is another. If you feel like you’ve been striking out more than you’d really like lately, you’ve come to the right place. Here we’ll go over some of the best, simplest ways to get laid a lot more often. You’ll be hitting home runs again in no time!

Be yourself.
When you feel like you’re not getting as much action as you’d ideally like, it’s tempting to decide you’re somehow not good enough as you are. Pretending to be someone or something else seems like an easy solution, right? After all, you just want to get laid, not get married, so what difference could it possibly make?

The fact of the matter is people can smell a fake from a mile away. Even more importantly, no one wants to sleep with one. Just relax and be yourself. Not only is it a lot easier than trying to maintain the perfect front, but you’re a lot more likely to hook up with someone whose company you genuinely enjoy. Continue reading…