7 Expert Chat Tips for Holding Any Woman’s Attention

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Whether you’re merely looking for some kinky fun or are ultimately open to something much more serious, a great profile will only get your foot in the door with attractive women you meet online. To keep a potential hook-up’s interest once you’ve got it, you need to know how to chat her up like an absolute pro. After all, she needs a good reason to give you her limited time and attention instead of one of the hundred other guys that would also like to have it.

Even so, knowing you’d like to master the fine art of sexy, scintillating chat that sets you apart in all the right ways (and possibly even gets you laid) is one thing. Actually doing that successfully is another. Keep the following tips in mind the next time you’re after an online hottie’s attention for your best possible chance at sweet success. Continue reading…

10 Important Questions to Ask Yourself Before Opening Up Your Relationship

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Even here in 2018, it goes without saying that open relationships aren’t right for everyone. However, it’s nearly impossible to ignore the kudos they get from those that have found a way to make things work for them. Open relationships can be scary if you’re new to the game, but with a little understanding and finesse, there’s really no reason why you can’t strike the right balance.

But how do you know whether going the open route is really the correct option for you and your partner? Even more importantly, how can you be properly prepared for the challenges and obstacles pretty much every couple faces while making the transition from closed to open? Sitting down with your partner and asking yourselves the following questions during the decision making process can help.

  1. “Why are we really considering this?”

For most people, the subject of opening up a relationship that is currently closed and monogamous doesn’t just come up at random and chances are that’s the case for you too. Start by figuring out why you feel the need to consider this in the first place. Then determine why you’re considering this now.

Are you in a sexual rut and looking to spice things up? Maybe your current partner has been your only partner for a long time and you want a chance to experience what else is out there these days. Yes, opening up a relationship can help breathe new life into things if your sex life has gotten stale, but so can other solutions such as role playing or kink. Continue reading…

10 Tips for Making Your Open Marriage Work

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Whether you’re already in an open marriage or simply thinking it might be a good fit for you at some point in the future, it’s not hard to understand why you’d be interested in one. It’s a common misconception that non-monogamous people don’t care about or crave the commitment and security marriage can bring to a person’s life. Many of them do and an open marriage represents the best of both worlds – lifelong love and commitment that still allows them the sexual freedom they need in order to be happy and fulfilled.

However, knowing an open marriage is the right fit for you is one thing. Making sure yours is healthy, happy, and mutually satisfying is another. Open marriages require just as much work, compromise, and communication as traditional closed marriages do – maybe even more in some areas. The following are a few strategies for making sure yours is as strong as can be.

  1. Make sure it’s right for both of you.

Open marriages only work when both people are equally interested in being in one. They don’t work in situations where one person is pushing for it while the other is simply going along to get along. They run into trouble when both parties are technically interested, but one is a lot more enthusiastic about it than the other as well.

It’s all too easy for the person that’s less interested to become conflicted or feel resentful, especially over time. If that’s the case for your spouse, don’t push or pressure in the hopes that they’ll eventually see things your way. Compromise by looking into alternative ways to spice up your sex life instead. Continue reading…

10 Ways Exercise Makes You Better in Bed

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It goes without saying that hitting the gym on the regular is one of the best things you can possibly do for your health. It helps you maintain a healthy weight, improves your heart health, and boosts your brain function. It makes you stronger, extends your potential life span, and improves your overall quality of life as well.

What you may not be aware of is the fact that getting fit and staying that way is one of the best possible ways to improve your sex life and become the sexual dynamo you’ve always wanted to be as well. Let’s take a closer look at how.

  1. It improves your circulation.

Exercise is famous for the way it really gets your blood pumping. It doesn’t just improve your overall cardiovascular health either. It promotes the efficient flow of blood throughout your entire body. This includes to your crotch, genitals, and sex organs. What’s more, this is the case for men and women alike.

For a man, better blood flow and more of it can result in bigger, harder, longer lasting erections. In women, better circulation means an ability to experience fuller, more intense arousal. Her vaginal walls, clitoris, and labia become more sensitive as a result leading to stronger orgasms and more of them. Continue reading…

10 Things You May Not Have Known About One Night Stands

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Hook-up culture is definitely a lot more mainstream these days, but that hardly means those that enjoy the associated lifestyle don’t have the occasional question. How much of what we believe about why people have one-night stands or casual sex is fact and how much is fiction? Sure, it feels like the most natural thing in the world, but are we truly predisposed as humans to prefer casual sex?

You may wonder how “average” you really are as compared to others who prefer casual sex as well. Here we’ll go over some interesting facts, figures, and discoveries about casual sex and one-night stands, the better to answer your burning questions. How many of the following facts did you already know?

  1. Your preference for casual sex could be genetic.

If you’ve always instinctively gravitated toward casual sex and open relationships because they feel more natural to you, it might be because of something that’s written in your genes. According to one study conducted by the State University of New York, some people actually are born predisposed toward a preference for casual sex thanks to a “hook-up gene”.

The gene in question is the DRD4 gene. Those that inherit that gene are more likely to prefer one-night stands, as well as more likely than average to cheat within the confines of monogamous relationships. They’re also more likely to crave “sensation-seeking” experiences in general (i.e. gambling or drug-related highs). Continue reading…

9 Signs Monogamy Might Not Be Right for You

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There are certain ideas pretty much everyone grows up believing in when it comes to romantic relationships. Everything from the movies we watch, to the music we listen to, to the values our parents work hard to instill in us idealizes two people “together forever” as the best and only choice… but what if that doesn’t work for everyone? More importantly, what if it doesn’t work for you?

Despite what polite society would still have us all believe, monogamy isn’t right for everyone and that’s perfectly OK. Alternative choices like polyamory, open relationships, and casual sex-focused lifestyles are becoming increasingly common as more and more people figure this out. Here we’ll go over a few telltale signs that one of those choices might actually be  a much better fit for you than monogamy. Do any of the following statements sound familiar? Continue reading…

The Ultimate Guide to Having Great Casual Sex

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It goes without saying that there’s a lot to be said for coming home for the holiday season. You get to touch base with friends you haven’t seen in years and fill up on plenty of excellent home cooking. It hardly hurts that you don’t have to worry about all your usual everyday responsibilities for a while either. Even so, even the best winter break can suddenly seem endless if you’re not also getting laid while you’re away and with good reason.

According to Trojan condoms, there’s about a 60% chance that you’ll have some form of casual sex while you’re home for winter break if you’re also young and single. Combine multiple social sex gatherings where there’ll be alcohol served with good old-fashioned end-of-the-year cheer and you definitely have a recipe for such things. Keep the following tips in mind to make sure you get the absolute most out of any experiences you might decide to pursue. Continue reading…

The Dos and Don’ts of Having a One-Night Stand

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A one-night stand is the type of experience that can either be the best thing ever or a total disaster. The difference between the two depends entirely on how you approach things. Yes, one-night stands are meant to be carefree, spontaneous decisions that break all the rules. However, there’s still something of a method to getting things right – a method that can be learned and eventually mastered with enough practice.

The next time you’re on the verge of having a phenomenal one-night encounter, keep these must-know dos and don’ts in mind. You’ll be a lot more likely to have an experience that’s awesome and satisfying for everyone involved.

  1.  DO give yourself permission to go for it.

Start by giving yourself full permission to go after what you want. Not only there’s nothing wrong with having casual sex, but it actually comes attached to a lot of potential benefits. It helps you manage both depression and anxiety. It can help you build confidence and self-esteem. It’s a great way to get the sexual gratification you crave without entering a committed relationship you might not really want or have time for as well. Continue reading…

8 Effective Ways to Get Your Sexual Groove Back

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It goes without saying that even a great life well lived can be super stressful from time to time. Balancing a high-powered career with an active family life and a full social calendar can find even the most virile among us temporarily off our game as a result and it’s not uncommon for our sex lives to be affected.

If it’s happened to you, you already know the frustration, but you should also know that it doesn’t have to be the end of the world. Here we’ll take a closer look at some of the most effective ways to get your groove back when it comes to your bedroom game. We’ll also touch on some key lifestyle factors to keep an eye on in the future. You’ll be feeling more like your usual self again in no time! Continue reading…

How to Have Better Casual Sex (and More of It)

Couple having casual sex If you’re currently at a place with your dating life that finds you preferring casual sex to commitment by a landslide, you’re in excellent company. According to one recent survey conducted by Adam and Eve, a whopping 41% of all Americans are currently choosing hook-ups and casual sex over more traditional options and it’s not hard to see why. Casual sex lets you enjoy the companionship, the connection, and – of course – the sex you’d get in a relationship, but without the need for strings, commitment, or promises you may not be prepared to keep. However, things can always be better, right? If you’re like a lot of people, you’d also love to know how to make your casual sex life even better and maybe even hook up more often. The following tips can help you get things moving in the right direction. Continue reading…