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The Morning After: The Right Texts to Send Your Hookup Under Every Circumstance

So it happened. You hooked up with someone last night. Maybe it was good and maybe it wasn’t, but it was pretty well understood that it was supposed to be a one-night kind of deal. Now what? If you exchanged cell numbers, you might feel like you ought to reach out the next day for the sake of politeness if nothing else, but what do you say? These days, the communication mode of choice is typically text and with good reason. Texts are low-pressure. They don’t demand the person’s immediate attention the way a phone call does. They’re cool, they’re...
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How To Make Sure That One-Night Stand Totally Happens

We all have that one friend who makes hooking up look easy, but – try as we might – we can never seem to score with the same consistency ourselves. So what’s that person’s secret anyway? Believe it or not, charisma and good looks have a lot less to do with it than you might think. It’s actually a lot more likely that they simply have a knack for not only picking potential partners, but knowing what it will take to close the deal. Allow us to elaborate. What to Look For and Where to Find It It’s true that...
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6 Great Places to Meet Smoking Hot Hookup Partners

In case you still haven’t heard, sex isn’t just a lot of fun. It’s also incredibly good for you, so you have every reason in the world to have it as often as possible. Sex treats your system to a full-body workout and a flood of endorphins, so you’re left feeling like a million bucks both inside and out. Sex is a great way to connect with another person on a one-of-a-kind level as well. It’s even increasingly socially acceptable to enjoy all the benefits of sex without the need to be in a committed relationship you may not be...
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Sexual Chemistry 101: How to Detect It Early and What to Do About It

Whether you’re only interested in hooking up right now or are ultimately looking for something more serious, sexual chemistry is an absolute must. It can be hard to explain and even harder to identify in the first place though, especially when dealing with someone you’ve only just met. Here we’ll go over everything you need to know about sexual chemistry if you’re serious about making better connections, having better sex, and just plain getting more out of the dating process. We’ll cover some surefire ways to identify potential sexual chemistry even if you’ve only just met someone. We’ll help you...
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Hooking Up with a Coworker: Hot Idea or Recipe for Disaster?

If you’ve ever been employed, chances are you’ve probably also thought about hooking up with a coworker a time or two and it’s not hard to understand why. Most people spend at least half of their waking hours at work every day, so not only do they interact with the same people over and over again, but they wind up getting to know many of them as well as they know anyone they live with. It’s hardly uncommon to become so close with a favorite coworker that sex seems inevitable under circumstances like that. But is actually crossing that line...
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Cybersex 101: What It Is and How to Make Your Cyber Game Hotter

These days, great online communication skills aren’t just helpful to have. They’re absolutely essential when it comes to many things, dating included. Whether you’ve got a steady partner who loves to sext or you’re a sexy single that likes to hook up over Tinder or Mixxxer once in a while, cybersex is definitely something it pays to be good at. Let’s go over what cybersex actually is, as well as touch on a few essentials guaranteed to keep you on that cyber-hottie’s mind for weeks to come....
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10 Tips for Playing Up Your Own Unique Brand of Sexiness

Knowing you want to be seen as sexy, attractive, and desirable is easy. It’s figuring out how to actually do it that’s hard. After all, no two people are going to find the exact same qualities and features sexy. Plus, we all have at least one friend or acquaintance that gets plenty of sexual attention despite not being conventionally attractive, right? At the end of the day, the key to being seen as a sexy, desirable person isn’t necessarily about what you have. It’s more about what you do with it. Here we’ll go over how tapping into your own...
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10 Tips for Coping with a Sexless Marriage

While there’s definitely more to a marriage than sex, it’s still incredibly difficult to sustain a happy, healthy one without it. Whether it’s temporary or permanent, a lack of sexual intimacy is mentally, physically, and emotionally hard on both parties in any committed relationship. Over time, it can even cause a couple to grow apart to the point where a split seems inevitable. But how much sex is “enough” anyway? Should you and your partner be having more? According to The Wall Street Journal, the average sex therapist would consider a given marriage “sexless” if the couple has sex fewer...
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12 Expert Tips for Having a Stellar Vacation Fling

Vacations are so wonderful because they have the potential to be whatever you want them to be. They can be relaxing or exhilarating. They can be all about blazing new trails and having the adventure of a lifetime or they can be about unwinding and taking it easy instead. At their best, vacations are all about getting away from it all and being open to new experiences of all types. What better time to try something a little different in the romance department? Vacations flings are a great way to add a dose of fun and excitement to your time...
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10 Must-Know Rules for Wowing a New Partner in the Sack

Whether you’re about to sexually seal the deal with a brand new relationship partner or simply looking to get laid like a boss the next time you schedule a Mixxxer date, sleeping with someone new can be something of a mixed bag. On the one hand, taking someone new to bed is an experience that’s exciting because it’s packed with potential. On the other, it can be totally nerve-wracking. What if things don’t go as planned? Even worse, what if you totally bomb and the sex just sucks as a result? Thankfully, the ability to rock a new partner’s world...
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Your Guide to Better No-Strings Attached Sex: Where to Get It, Who to Do It With, and How to Make Sure It’s Hot

If you’ve been having casual sex for a while but also wishing your average encounter was better, easier, or hotter, you’re hardly alone. Plenty of people decide to go the no-strings-attached route because they love the idea of easy, drama-free sex only to wind up frustrated when things don’t go as expected or desired. If that sounds familiar, then it could be time to redefine how you think of no-strings-attached sex in the first place. Far too many people assume that casual sex by definition doesn’t require any care, planning, or forethought. In actuality, those things are pretty necessary if...
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8 Tips for Scoring the Perfect App Hookup

While it’s true that sex isn’t everything when it comes to our love lives, there’s no real point in denying that it comes pretty darned close to topping the list. We could be single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between but we all have one thing in common. We want to get laid as often as we find ourselves in the mood. We want it to be good too. Whether you already have someone you’re hooking up with on the regular or not, mobile hook-up interfaces like Tinder, Grindr, and Mixxxer take a lot of the guesswork out of...
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7 Expert Chat Tips for Holding Any Woman’s Attention

Whether you’re merely looking for some kinky fun or are ultimately open to something much more serious, a great profile will only get your foot in the door with attractive women you meet online. To keep a potential hook-up’s interest once you’ve got it, you need to know how to chat her up like an absolute pro. After all, she needs a good reason to give you her limited time and attention instead of one of the hundred other guys that would also like to have it. Even so, knowing you’d like to master the fine art of sexy, scintillating...
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10 Important Questions to Ask Yourself Before Opening Up Your Relationship

Even here in 2018, it goes without saying that open relationships aren’t right for everyone. However, it’s nearly impossible to ignore the kudos they get from those that have found a way to make things work for them. Open relationships can be scary if you’re new to the game, but with a little understanding and finesse, there’s really no reason why you can’t strike the right balance. But how do you know whether going the open route is really the correct option for you and your partner? Even more importantly, how can you be properly prepared for the challenges and...
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Life After Craigslist: How Mixxxer Can Get Your Sex Life Back on Track

While Craigslist is still a great place to go if you’re looking for a good deal on a used sofa or need a room for rent pronto, the days of using it find easy, no-strings-attached sex are unfortunately over with. This past March, the popular website deactivated its popular “personals” section for good after many years of activity. The change came about as a result of Congress passing the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act. Although FOSTA was primarily meant to crack down on any possible online sex trafficking of children, open online interfaces like Craigslist were affected nevertheless. According to...
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10 Tips for Making Your Open Marriage Work

Whether you’re already in an open marriage or simply thinking it might be a good fit for you at some point in the future, it’s not hard to understand why you’d be interested in one. It’s a common misconception that non-monogamous people don’t care about or crave the commitment and security marriage can bring to a person’s life. Many of them do and an open marriage represents the best of both worlds – lifelong love and commitment that still allows them the sexual freedom they need in order to be happy and fulfilled. However, knowing an open marriage is the...
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10 Ways Exercise Makes You Better in Bed

It goes without saying that hitting the gym on the regular is one of the best things you can possibly do for your health. It helps you maintain a healthy weight, improves your heart health, and boosts your brain function. It makes you stronger, extends your potential life span, and improves your overall quality of life as well. What you may not be aware of is the fact that getting fit and staying that way is one of the best possible ways to improve your sex life and become the sexual dynamo you’ve always wanted to be as well. Let’s...
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10 Things You May Not Have Known About One Night Stands

Hook-up culture is definitely a lot more mainstream these days, but that hardly means those that enjoy the associated lifestyle don’t have the occasional question. How much of what we believe about why people have one-night stands or casual sex is fact and how much is fiction? Sure, it feels like the most natural thing in the world, but are we truly predisposed as humans to prefer casual sex? You may wonder how “average” you really are as compared to others who prefer casual sex as well. Here we’ll go over some interesting facts, figures, and discoveries about casual sex...
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9 Signs Monogamy Might Not Be Right for You

There are certain ideas pretty much everyone grows up believing in when it comes to romantic relationships. Everything from the movies we watch, to the music we listen to, to the values our parents work hard to instill in us idealizes two people “together forever” as the best and only choice… but what if that doesn’t work for everyone? More importantly, what if it doesn’t work for you? Despite what polite society would still have us all believe, monogamy isn’t right for everyone and that’s perfectly OK. Alternative choices like polyamory, open relationships, and casual sex-focused lifestyles are becoming increasingly...
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How to Successfully Open Up Your Relationship

If you’re in a traditional monogamous relationship, it’s not difficult to understand why you might want to try opening things up. Open relationships can be wonderful, healthy ways to experience the variety you crave when it comes to sex without saying good-bye to the companionship and depth you enjoy in your primary relationship. Neither of you ever has to feel like you’re missing out either, which can actually make your relationship stronger in many ways. However, deciding an open relationship could be amazing for both you and your partner is one thing. Successfully convincing your partner to give it a...
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The Ultimate Guide to Having Great Casual Sex

It goes without saying that there’s a lot to be said for coming home for the holiday season. You get to touch base with friends you haven’t seen in years and fill up on plenty of excellent home cooking. It hardly hurts that you don’t have to worry about all your usual everyday responsibilities for a while either. Even so, even the best winter break can suddenly seem endless if you’re not also getting laid while you’re away and with good reason. According to Trojan condoms, there’s about a 60% chance that you’ll have some form of casual sex while...
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The Dos and Don’ts of Having a One-Night Stand

A one-night stand is the type of experience that can either be the best thing ever or a total disaster. The difference between the two depends entirely on how you approach things. Yes, one-night stands are meant to be carefree, spontaneous decisions that break all the rules. However, there’s still something of a method to getting things right – a method that can be learned and eventually mastered with enough practice. The next time you’re on the verge of having a phenomenal one-night encounter, keep these must-know dos and don’ts in mind. You’ll be a lot more likely to have...
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8 Effective Ways to Get Your Sexual Groove Back

It goes without saying that even a great life well lived can be super stressful from time to time. Balancing a high-powered career with an active family life and a full social calendar can find even the most virile among us temporarily off our game as a result and it’s not uncommon for our sex lives to be affected. If it’s happened to you, you already know the frustration, but you should also know that it doesn’t have to be the end of the world. Here we’ll take a closer look at some of the most effective ways to get...
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How to Have Better Casual Sex (and More of It)

If you’re currently at a place with your dating life that finds you preferring casual sex to commitment by a landslide, you’re in excellent company. According to one recent survey conducted by Adam and Eve, a whopping 41% of all Americans are currently choosing hook-ups and casual sex over more traditional options and it’s not hard to see why. Casual sex lets you enjoy the companionship, the connection, and – of course – the sex you’d get in a relationship, but without the need for strings, commitment, or promises you may not be prepared to keep. However, things can always...
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10 Foolproof Tips for Having Great Sex with Someone New

Getting down and dirty with someone you’ve never been with before can be a nerve-wracking experience to be sure. On the one hand, there’s nothing quite as alluring as the mystery and excitement an entirely new partner brings to the table. However, you naturally want to make a memorable impression that leaves the other person moaning, not groaning. Thankfully fantastic sex with someone new is totally the type of thing you can plan for and execute to perfection. Whether you’re anticipating a first time with a would-be new relationship partner or simply want to make sure your one-night stand game...
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9 Surprising Benefits of Having Casual Sex

Casual sex is the type of thing that gets a bad rap in certain circles, but it really shouldn’t. No, it’s definitely not right for everyone, but for some people it’s actually many times more beneficial than being in a monogamous relationship. Here we’ll take a closer look at some of the many ways indulging your interest in casual sex is actually an excellent idea for the right type of person, the better to help you determine whether or not it’s right for you. It’s really empowering from a sexual standpoint. If you’re like most people, you’ve probably had certain...
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9 Tips for Making Any Woman Obsessed with You

How to attract the opposite sex – it’s a subject men have been fascinated by for thousands of years. It’s also a topic that’s more than a little bit mystifying to most. Why do some guys seem to have all the luck and pretty much always get the girls they want? What eternal secret do they understand that other guys simply don’t? Contrary to popular belief, being the type of guy women obsess over and can’t seem to stop thinking about isn’t about money or looks. Sure, those things help, but you don’t necessarily need them in order to succeed...
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9 Signs Casual Dating Is Something You Should Try

If you’re like a lot of folks, you probably grew up thinking there was only one way to date or to pursue romantic relationships with other people. You met someone you liked and then you dated exclusively, presumably with the intent to eventually get married and remain with that person for the rest of your life. For some folks, that progression of events is ideal – exactly what they hope to get out of the dating experience. For others, it just doesn’t feel like a fit at all....
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Can You Really Find Dates Through Adult Dating Sites?

Once upon a time, mainstream dating sites like Match.com or eHarmony may have been seen as solutions to be skeptical of, but now they’re completely ordinary ways to meet people and roll the dice in search of love. At this point, millions have found lasting love via such avenues and no one really thinks twice about using them. They simply trust that the system is effective and go for it. But what if you’re not interested in “happily ever after” at this exact point in your life? What if you just want to have some fun with cool people and...
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Can Porn Actually Make a Relationship Stronger?

Whether you openly admit it or not, you probably really enjoy watching porn and it’s not hard to see why. It’s natural and normal to enjoy watching other people have sex. It’s a fun and exciting way to enhance masturbation sessions. It’s a great way to satisfy your curiosity as far as the logistics of various sex acts as well. When you’re doing things on your own, porn fits naturally into the way you express yourself sexually… but what happens when you’re not? Does porn actually have a place in your life when you also have sex partners to consider?...
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How to Stay Positive About Dating: Tips to Keep in Mind

Most of us have something of a love-hate relationship with dating and it’s not hard to see why. On the one hand, meeting new people and allowing yourself to get excited about the possibilities can be a real blast. On the other, dating comes with more than its share of drama as well. It can be especially hard to find other people that actually want the same things you do, especially if you prefer no-strings-attached dating to traditional relationships. All things considered, it’s understandable if you find it hard to stay positive about dating instead of just throwing in the...
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6 Telltale Signs Your Sex Life Is Going Stale (and What to Do About It)

Here in 2017, it seems as if people are more open sexually than ever before. People talk freely about once-taboo topics like female sexuality and sex toys of all types. It’s totally acceptable to have an interest in open relationships or casual sex. Books like Fifty Shades of Grey are achieving bestseller status and starting frank conversations all over social media as well. So why are so many of us still falling into sexual ruts and settling for stale, stagnant sex lives? At the end of the day, sex is just like anything else. It’s totally possible to fall into...
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8 Tips for Keeping a Casual Sex Relationship Casual

While there’s definitely nothing wrong with being in a committed long-term relationship, there’s a lot to be said for casual dating as well. When you keep things casual, you still get to enjoy a connection with another person, but in a way that stays fresh, fun, and exciting. Plus, you’re both always free to explore as many or as few other options as you like. Your connection lasts as long as you’re both having fun. Then you simply go your separate ways without pressure, drama, or obligation. In other words, casual sex relationships are pretty much the best of both...
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8 Things Men Think Women Lie About on Their Dating Profiles

There’s definitely a lot to love about online dating, especially if you’re a guy that’s still playing the field. Instead of trying to find the energy to hit the club or the bars after a long work week, you can simply log on and get to know as many new women as you like whenever you have a moment. Plus, you can cut right to the chase online and easily find gorgeous, vivacious women that want the same things you do whether that’s a serious relationship, a friends with benefits connection, or just plain social sex. There’s only one thing...
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Where Are the Best (and Worst) Places to Have an Affair?

There are lots of reasons why a person might choose to have an affair. Affairs can be exciting and exhilarating thanks to the element of risk involved. They can be an incredibly effective way to keep your personal needs met while you figure out what you want to do about the relationship you’re already in as well. Plus, let’s face it. Sometimes affairs simply happen no matter what we may think an “ideal” love life looks like on paper. That said, you’ve just entered a judgment-free zone where you can find out everything you ever wanted to know about having...
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Open Relationships: Should There Be Rules?

Here in the 21st century, we have quite a few options when it comes to many areas of life. This is no less the case with dating than it is anything else. While traditional dating and relationships aren’t completely a thing of the past, we’re no longer stuck doing things that way if we decide it isn’t right for us. Open relationships in particular represent the best of both worlds. You can enjoy the closeness and security that committed relationships bring to the table, but you’re also still free to explore other people sexually if you wish. However, there’s definitely...
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Unforgettable Sexts: Send Sexts To Get Her Wet

At this point, we all probably have several female Facebook friends that complain almost constantly about the number of unsolicited dick pics and overly salacious messages they receive from various dudes. Plus, there always seems to be another story hitting the news about some politician or other professional that landed himself in hot water because he sent someone some naughty texts that he shouldn’t have. Naturally, that leaves the male population at large wondering about sexting as a concept. Are sexts and naughty pictures ever a good idea? Do women ever actually enjoy receiving them and, if so, do they...
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Looking for Sex vs Looking for Love

When it comes to the world of dating, the battle of the sexes is alive and well. The proof can easily be seen in the ways columns and magazines geared toward either men or women address the topic. How can an eager single go about understanding the opposite sex well enough to make a good impression on a first date? How can you better satisfy your partner in bed? What can you do to make sure a given encounter plays out the way you hope it will? How can you write a dating profile capable of attracting the right people?...
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Cybersex Dating: 10 Hot Benefits of Getting Laid Online

The Internet is becoming a bigger and bigger part of how we live our lives. We’re leveraging the power of the web to start businesses and make money. We consume a lot of our music, movies, and other media online. Technology is certainly a major part of how we manage our social lives so it only makes sense that people would be more interested than ever in seeing what the web can do for their sex lives. That said, cybersex is no longer considered to be just for lonely basement dwellers that can’t get a real date. It’s becoming a...
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6 Tips for Getting a Quick Date Through Online Dating

If the idea of trying to meet your next fling by chatting up random women at the bar, the grocery store, or the gym really leaves you cold, you’re in excellent company. Lots of guys find the process of determining who’s actually available (not to mention interested) to be tedious. Others simply don’t have the time or the patience to spend weekend after weekend club hopping in the hopes that they might run into someone special sooner or later. That’s where online dating comes in. On an online dating site, you already know that everyone there is available, looking, and...
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11 Useful Tips for Getting Laid

It goes without saying that committed relationships are fantastic in a number of different ways. However, sometimes you just really want to scratch that all-too-familiar itch without the strings, the commitment, or the seriousness that relationships typically require. In other words, sometimes you just want to have fun, enjoy a good time, and get laid. Even so, knowing you’re in the mood for a no-strings-attached good time is one thing. Actually, finding one is another. If you feel like you’ve been striking out more than you’d really like lately, you’ve come to the right place. Here we’ll go over some of...
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How to Find a No Strings Attached Fling

How to Find a No Strings Attached Fling No strings attached relationships are the type of thing that sounds like a dream come true to millions of people and it’s not hard to see why. You get to tap into everything that’s great about a relationship – the companionship, the fun, and the sex with someone you’re comfortable with – without having to make a serious commitment and tie yourself down. However, knowing such a relationship sounds like something you’d like to try is one thing. Making sure the experience actually goes the way you want is something else entirely....
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How to Find a Fuck Buddy for Easy Casual Sex

“Friends with benefits” – it’s a term we’ve all heard by now. If you’re like most people, you may even have wondered if it’s right for you and with good reason. While there’s certainly nothing wrong with loving, committed relationships, friends with benefits arrangements bring their own perks to the table. Those that swear by FWB say such relationships come attached to better, hotter sex and much less heartbreak among other things. However, knowing “friends with benefits” is something you’d like to try for yourself and actually finding a situation that works for you are two different matters. Let’s take...
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Politics and Sex – How to Scandalize Your Next Casual Date

Election season is a time when the blood runs high, people get loud and there’s a whole lot of friction going on. Sound familiar? The truth is that politics and sex are intrinsically linked, as shown by the public’s absolute fascination with sex scandals, particularly in delicate times in the electoral cycle. Why not harness some of that energy (literally, if you’re kinky!) and get a little “head” of state action going on in your own bedroom? Here are some erotic election-inspired ideas that you can use in your very own political positions: Sexy Role Playing Make the most of...
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VR Porn – A Bang or a Bust

Porn drives technology. It’s a simple truth that’s decided tech “winners” from VHS to Blu-Ray, and it continues to shape the devices and software that we use for decidedly more PG applications every day. Each technological leap forward has made our digital approximation of the beast with two backs (or more, depending on your personal proclivities) increasingly realistic. Right now, we can easily find and buy adult toys – both insertable and penetratable – that use the internet to connect. We have vibrators that rely on text message content or the bass on our favorite songs to bring us to the...
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Top 17 Immensely Funny Sexting Fails

Let’s be honest – we all love sex, and we all love our smartphones. They both involve exciting exploration, thrilling imagery and indulgent gratification, though it’s admittedly easier to play Angry Birds on one over the other. If your phone browser tabs include mobile dating sites or an adult dating app or two, you’ve successfully combined these two tools for personal pleasure – bravo! Unfortunately, not everyone manages to pull that off quite as easily. Though it’s sad for them, it’s pretty damn hilarious for the rest of us – here are 17 of the best sexting fails we’ve spotted:...
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Sexting – The Excitement of Dirty Texts

Only a short while ago everyone was walking around with flip phones and the only people sending text messages were the nerdy types. Back then, no one had heard of the term SMS. Sure, there were people hooking up via AOL chat rooms back in the day, but when smartphones became ubiquitous, people began to play in a much more casual way. Sexting is now its own form of seduction for many, thanks to the always on and always turned on approach that singles and spouses on the down low are able to share from just about anywhere. Just how...
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Swingers Spotlight: Finding Sex Online With Plenty of Partners

Online sex dating for “no strings attached” hookups have become really easy these days, in fact, for many casual singles finding one single booty call has become so easy that their interests are expanding and the Swinger lifestyle is making a comeback thanks to a groundswell of open-minded sexy couples interested in becoming intimate with a wider array of partners. If an occasional date with a single mate is no longer enough to thrill you, read on to find out how you can supercharge your sex life by adding more playmates to the mix via polyamorous online communities like Mixxxer.com...
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Pro Tips for Women Dating Online

There are lots of newbie guides to online dating aimed at helping people who are trying to find hookup sites like craigslist for the very first time. Sure they have useful information in them, but if you are someone who has already succeeded at looking for sex online, those newbie guides won’t be much help for a more experienced online dating enthusiast. That’s why we’ve prepared this guide based on feedback from Mixxxer.com community members. These are the Dating Pro Tips designed to make it easier to go from being the kind of mate that has sex tonight a couple...
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Sharing Your Polyamorous Dating Lifestyle

There has been so much discussion lately about ‘marriage equality’ and the proper ‘definition of marriage’ but most of the dialogue deals with the broader themes of LGBT equality rather than a real exploration of what marriage really is or should be in the modern world. The entire construct of marriage may be due for a major overhaul, and millions of Americans are already redefining the way their vows are expressed in their own lives. Polyamory (the concept of an open relationship that allows the couple to be intimate with others) is gaining popularity quickly, but many men and women...
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